The two introductory dates went off with a bang and you are waiting for the classic third. You are attacked with letters and text messages filled with all-consuming passion and promises to please in a way that no one else has done, focusing on oral pleasures. You anticipate, dream, imagine, and in the end you ask yourself the question: “Yes, what the hell?”. In my memory, this is a common story, or rather a story, when men do not differ in the dexterity of language when sexually comforting a woman. But in the same language they sang odes to themselves and appropriated the title of king of cunnilingus . And with what such joy are they? The kings of this style do not listen and do not hear prompts and advice – they, you see, know better, and if something does not satisfy you, then, most likely, in their opinion, the reason is in you. You are frigid, you do not know how to relax, or maybe you are generally sick! What’s not clear here? At bachelorette parties, we can only help each other, but I decided to talk about this topic with men. They were extremely surprised by my personal statistics and the statistics of female acquaintances called “terrible kunik “, and I, in turn, was stunned by the information that most girls are not very good at blowjobs, or, to be more precise, they do it disgustingly. “Only 1-2 partners out of 50 do a good blowjob,” recollects the average man I interviewed. The rest of the girls ended up in the section – tolerant. But men also receive from girls the same provocative messages promising to plunge into the world of debauchery and other things, and in the end, like us, they ask the question: “Yes, what the hell?” But the question “Am I good at blowjob?” only a man can answer. Although it is doubtful that he will tell you: “Manya, cut, blow your shit”, learn all it is worth, but the best of a series of leading questions, that it needs to improve. Well, in order not to fall on your face, here is a list of failed actions that initially lower your blowjob on a 10-point scale to one:
1. Does not observe him and his reaction
Madame does not feel a partner and does not listen to him, his requests, sensations (she sucks something of her own, decided not to understand where, that he needs to delay pussies with scrolls and swallows , but he just wanted tenderness, or vice versa).
2. Doesn’t enjoy herself
The girl makes a blowjob without desire, with disgust, or through force (there is even nothing to comment on, just imagine yourself in the place of a man during cunnilingus ). On the contrary, a girl who likes to do a blow job and who enjoys it, incredibly arouses a man in the process.
3. Hiding
She hides behind her hair or, even worse, under a blanket (after all, he chose you as a partner and wants to see you, get excited from you, and not poke a yeti in the mouth).
4. Doesn’t show imagination
A woman makes a blowjob without imagination and without variety (and after all, a man can masturbate without you).
5. Scores on hygiene
It would seem elementary things, but you need to understand that men can be repulsed by your blowjob with unclean teeth after waking up, unwashed makeup on your face (especially lipstick), etc.
So, everything is simple and unpretentious, but only in your hands (and not only hands) everything that can include you in those rare 2-4% of the best mistresses. And the most important thing is that you will simply learn to give real pleasure to your partner and he will not have to lie that everything is fine, honey, do not worry.